Sex vs Making Love, is there a difference?

written by @DjCocoaChanelle

Is there a difference between Sex and Making Love? YES! there's a HUGE difference. Physically sex & making love may have similarities, but the emotional aspect of "Making love" is what separates the two.

"Making love" is about sharing a deep emotional connection, showing your love by physically & emotionally expressing how you feel to a person you love or deeply care about.

"Making love" involves intimacy & affection, things like passionate kissing and verbally expressing how you feel in the moment. When you have feelings for someone, sex is not about self satisfaction, you'll naturally want to make your partner feel special. Satisfying them becomes your priority, not the other way around.

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5 bad Moves Men Make That Turn Women Off....

written by @DjCocoaChanelle

Recently i stumbled onto a article about sexual turn offs that made me laugh. I could identify with a lot of what was being said...

I'm no sex expert, However, i do know a thing or 2 about what turns myself and the average woman OFF... so i decided to put together my own personal list of BAD MOVES men make in hopes of helping you fella's see the light, lol

1. Sending Penis Pictures:

Sending a penis picture without knowing if she wants to see it is a BAD MOVE fellas!!! In a committed relationship there are no rules, but in the beginning dating phase, sending a penis picture to a woman’s phone, email, twitter or facebook is a absolute no no.

I met a man i was interested in (let's call him Mr X), by our 2rd phone conversation Mr X says "i wanna text you a picture" so i'm thinking to myself "Great, it would be nice to see his cute face", little did i know it wasn't his face i was about to see, SMH!!!

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New relationship studies show men are valuing cuddling & affection more while women value more sex

Hmmmmmm, can this be true? Are the fellas really valuing cuddling and affection more than sex and vise versa.... women are valuing sex more than cuddling? Huffington Post reports.... Researchers from the Kinsey Institute in Bloomington, Ind. surveyed couples in long-term relationships from five different countries, and found some surprising results, reports TIME.

Men who reported frequently kissing or cuddling with their partners were on average three times as happy with their relationships as men who reported limited interaction. Perhaps more surprising, the study found it was sexual satisfaction that was more important to women in long-term relationships. And it also found that for women, sex got better over time -- they reported significantly more sexual satisfaction after being with their partner for 15 years.

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