10 good questions to ask when getting to know someone...

written by @DjCocoaChanelle

1. Are you married / or do have a girlfriend/boyfriend?

Any studdering, hesitation or giggling is a MAJOR red flag. "Are you single" is a very simple question that should have a very simple answer... i remember this man was trying to approach me, i asked him if he was single... first he giggled (nervous laughter) then he said "why you ask me that"? then he said "yes i'm single", then he says "i have friends", translation... "no i'm not single, i have a girl but i'm also a dog". SMH!!! If a man/woman is single he/she will answer that question with a simple "YES" (with no pause), anything other than that is suspect.

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Should A Woman Pay On A Date?

written by @DjCocoaChanelle

Call me old fashion, but when it comes to dating in the very beginning stages, i like the good ole days when a man actually courted and romanced a woman the traditional way to make her feel special. What happened to those days?

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10 Lies Almost ALL Women Tell

I came across these lies by Anslem Samuel & Murphy who are (both men) from different sites. I HATE to admit it (sorry ladies) but the guys are pretty much on point... check it out and let me know what you think.

1. "I'm looking for a good man."

Then why do you keep dating losers? Women say they want a certain type of man but oftentimes end up dealing with guys that are the complete opposite, while the supposed "good" guys are left by the wayside. Clearly, women don't know what they want or what's good for them. Where do you think the phrase, "nice guys finish last" came from?

2. "I don't know why I'm single."

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