Written by @DjCocoaChanelle
Can men forgive cheating??? NO NO & NO!!! Well, some of them can, but for the most part, the average man has a much harder time forgiving cheating than women do.
When men cheat, women are expected to just "get over it" and move on, but when a woman cheats it seems like all HELL breaks loose and the man is usually unable to forgive her.
written by @DjCocoaChanelle
Now that the internet is so popular... Online cheating is at a all time high. I decided to make a list of things that i personally find suspect... Check out the 5 warning signs below to see if your spouse fits the description.
1. Your spouse logs off, hides or changes the computer screen as soon as you come any where near them
This is a HUGE red flag, you don't even need me to tell you that this one is suspect, however... for those of you who don't know.... If your spouse is on the computer then SUDDENLY logs off soon as you walk in the room or they switch the screen to a different screen other than the screen they was on before you came in the room, It's time to start asking some questions.
I came across a article on Black Voices that listed 10 Lies Men tell (SMH) i have to say i pretty much agree with most of the list... let me know what you think. Fella's let me know if it's accurate... Ladies, let me know if you have been told any of these lies before.
1. "I'll call you."
It isn't hard to make a phone call. At least it wasn't before text messaging replaced actual conversation and relationships were catapulted from social networking sites and Instant Messaging conversations. Yet somehow it seems easier for men to end a conversation with, "I'll call you later" or "I'll call you right back" instead of being honest and saying, "I will try to call. I might even think about it, but I most likely won't because my attention span is akin to a golden retriever's."
2. "My phone was dead/off/on silent."
Most of the lies men tell are directly linked to wrongdoing. READ: CHEATING. When a man says his phone is off, it usually means he was getting off...with someone other than you.
I came across this list and decided to share it... i must say, i feel it's pretty accurate. Fella's you might wanna take a look. Most women are driven by emotions. Once we give you our heart, you have us mind body and soul until you drop the ball in some type of way.. men usually will cheat and it means nothing to them.. it's usually different with women, if your lady is cheating, it's probably for emotional reasons... something is lacking. Unlike when a man cheats and it means nothing... There's a good chance that if she's cheating, she has feelings for the side dude.
1. Revenge/Resentment
“Hell has no fury like a woman scorned.” You’ve heard that saying, right? Well, apparently it’s truer than most people realize. The most common reason women give for cheating is payback. Even a woman who is normally faithful in relationships may be likely to cheat if she’s heartbroken. Her way of “getting you back” may be taboo, but that doesn’t mean she won’t do it. An unhealthy build-up of resentment and bitterness may be just enough to push your wife or girlfriend to do things that are out of character for her.
2. Quest for romance and intimacy
Although many women fall in love with courtship and the romance that comes with it, it is common for the wooing to die off after a long-term relationship or marriage ensues. Well guess what…there are plenty of guys out there hoping for an opportunity to romance your lady if you won’t do it. And there are, unfortunately, many women cheating with Mr. Romantic. He’ll shower her with flowers, kisses, compliments, and nights on the town while you complain about not having time.
According to Relationship Expert, Stephany Alexander, B.A., Author, Women's Speaker
and founder of www.WomanSavers.com, one of the most popular women's sites on the net receiving millions of hits per month, These are the TOP 10 signs of a cheating man. Check out the list and let me know if you agree or Disagree.
1. Spends less time with you. A cheating man must use the excuse of working long hours, extra meetings and dinners or other unexplained functions so he will have time with his “other” woman.
2. Isn’t as affectionate any more. Your sex life is almost non-existent because of his other commitments. He doesn’t want to cuddle, watch a movie, hold hands or do many of the touchy things he used to.
3. He changes his physical appearance. A cheating man usually starts buying new clothes, gets a new hair style or begins working out because he wants to be attractive to the other woman in his life besides you.
4. Car changes. The passenger seat in the car has been moved or there is an unknown hair on the car seat. Perhaps the radio station is on an irregular station because that’s what she likes.
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