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Monday
Mar072011

5 Reasons Why Women Cheat


I came across this list and decided to share it... i must say, i feel it's pretty accurate. Fella's you might wanna take a look. Most women are driven by emotions. Once we give you our heart, you have us mind body and soul until you drop the ball in some type of way.. A lot of times some men will cheat for no apparent reason.. it's usually different with women, if your lady is cheating, 9 times out of 10 there IS a reason and it's probably for emotional reasons... something is lacking in the relationship. Unlike when a man cheats and it means nothing... There's a good chance that if she's cheating, she has feelings for the side dude.

1. Revenge/Resentment

“Hell has no fury like a woman scorned.” You’ve heard that saying, right? Well, apparently it’s truer than most people realize. The most common reason women give for cheating is payback. Even a woman who is normally faithful in relationships may be likely to cheat if she’s heartbroken. Her way of “getting you back” may be taboo, but that doesn’t mean she won’t do it. An unhealthy build-up of resentment and bitterness may be just enough to push your wife or girlfriend to do things that are out of character for her.

2. Quest for romance and intimacy

Although many women fall in love with courtship and the romance that comes with it, it is common for the wooing to die off after a long-term relationship or marriage ensues. Well guess what…there are plenty of guys out there hoping for an opportunity to romance your lady if you won’t do it. And there are, unfortunately, many women cheating with Mr. Romantic. He’ll shower her with flowers, kisses, compliments, and nights on the town while you complain about not having time.

3. Feeling Unappreciated, Unloved, or Undesired

Instead of being unfaithful because they’ve fallen out of love, most women cheat because they no longer feel loved in returned. They are emotionally starved. When a woman feels unloved, unappreciated, or taken for granted, she’s extremely vulnerable. She may feel lonely, even though she’s not alone. She may act out as a result of the insecurity that she feels about your feelings for her and about the relationship as a whole.

4. Preparing for Breakup

A somewhat surprising reason women cheat is because it’s over in her heart. Rather than ending the relationship upon being fed up, some women cheat as part of a break up plan. If she is emotionally immature, the reason may be because she’s not comfortable with being alone. She wants to test the waters with someone new, find comfort in some else’s arms, get her needs met, and begin a new journey. She’s ready to move on; however, she doesn’t want to let you go in case things with this new guy don’t work out.

A woman who is emotionally mature will typically not choose this path, so the best way to safeguard your heart against this pre-breakup cheating is to choose a woman who isn’t too insecure to be alone. Also, it is important to address the issues in your relationship. If things aren’t going well and you’re drifting apart, talk about it so that you’re both on the same page about where the relationship is headed.

5. Long-term sexual dissatisfaction

We don’t usually hear a lot about women cheating primarily for sexual reasons. However, sex may be a driving factor when the woman cheating is extremely dissatisfied for a long period of time. This issue may come up in situations like the following: you’re unwilling to learn how to satisfy her; you’re opposed to oral sex, foreplay, or other sexual acts that she strongly desires; sex doesn’t last long enough for her to reach orgasm; you’re less skilled at sexual pleasure than her previous lover(s); you’re not interested in having sex as often as she desires it.

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Laughing at this bullshit article. Women cheat just as much as men and all for the same reasons, because they can. Bottom line, I don't care who you are or how tight your sex game is or what you have, it's not a matter of who will cheat, but when they'll cheat. I've learned a lesson the hard way in life about love and relationships. People are very insecure and get off on cheating when there's someone on the receiving end for some pain. This is how they build self esteem. The best way to avoid any pain is to love and respect self first. If you sense someone is doin you dirty; get evidence of it and remove yourself from the equation. Game over.
April 27, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterKayzure

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