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Thursday
Oct132011

10 Signs He's A GOOD Guy.

written by @DjCocoaChanelle

Sometimes when i hear women describing what they consider to be a "Good Guy"... i'll hear them say things like "he does_________ for a living" or "He makes ________ per year" or he drives _________... It's great to have a man who has a good job and is financially stable, but by no means should that be the deciding factor on whether he's a GOOD man or not.

I've dated men who were very well off financially, Dining at the best restaurants and getting the most expensive gifts mean nothing if that's all a man has to offer. Money can't buy true love.

1. He ask "Hows Your Day?"
Some men ask how's your day while secretly hoping you won't tell them because they really could care less about your day... Then there's the good guy who ask "How's your day" and you can feel that he really cares :)
2. He treats his mother good:
some women think if a man is real close to his mother it's a red flag that he's a big ol "Momma's boy", NONE of us ladies want that, however, i believe its a great sign when a man is close to and respects his mom, it usually means that he respects women in general and will show you the same respect
3. He's honest & trustworthy:
I think everyone is guilty of telling little-white-lies... but occasionally we'll meet some one who is far beyond a little-white-liar, smh. I knew a man who i honestly think could get a award for "Biggest Liar" on the planet!! this man would constantly lie about the dumbest things that didn't even make sense to lie about. If you're gonna lie, At least lie for a reason (sheeesh) lol... There's something to be said about a honest man, it's attractive, sometimes the truth hurts but at least you know his word is golden.
A trustworthy man is a beautiful thing, If he's trustworthy it means he makes you feel safe enough to open up and tell him things you wouldn't dare tell another soul. That's a rare and special kind of man.
4. He keeps his word with you:
A really good sign of a good man is he keeps his word with you. If he says he going to do something he does it because disappointing you is the last thing he wants to do.
5. He spends quality time with you:
Quality time is VERY important for a healthy relationship. If a man loves being with you and spending quality time, that's a great sign.
6. He shows you how he feels:
Ever heard the saying "Actions speak louder than words"? that's one of the truest sayings in the world. Any one can say "i love you" or "i care about you" but the question is.... do they show it?
7. He listens to you:
Listening is one of the most underrated qualities. it's annoying when a man over talks me or constantly cuts me off or just seems uninterested in what i have to say. When a man listens to you and hears what you are saying, it shows what you have to say matters to him.
8. He respects you:
When a man respects you, it shows in every way, the way he speaks to you, the way he speaks about you to others, little things he does like opening the door...etc.
9. When you have a bad day he tries to make it better:
When you are having one of those not-so-good days, he tries to put a smile on your face or make you laugh because seeing you sad hurts him.
10. He accepts you for who YOU are:
Sometime men will get with a woman and then start requesting changes. "stop wearing so much makeup" or "why are you wearing that outfit".. a good guys loves and accepts you just the way you are.
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